Fed up with being single? Listen up, all y’all single ladies (and while you’re at it, turn up that Beyoncé song, along with Billy Idol’s “Dancing with Myself”). However long it’s been since you’ve been in a relationship, don’t despair. Count your solo stint as a blessing in disguise. Delve deeper into the search to know and unconditionally love yourself. This is an ideal time to get to know yourself in depth and figure out where you are and who you want to be with. And, definitely don’t skimp on self-care. Here is some real-life motivation and inspiration for you from another worthy woman who’s spent plenty of life being single.

The feeling of loneliness and self-doubt can creep in when life isn’t going the way you’d like it to. But I’m here to tell you that you are not alone and that there is a light at the end of the tunnel! It may seem like a daunting task to be single and take on life’s challenges on your own, but it can be done – and you can be successful, fulfilled, and happy. The most important thing to remember is that you are the only one who can make your dreams come true. No one else can do it for you. 

Life can be tough, but don’t forget that you are strong and capable. When things don’t go your way, remind yourself that it’s just part of the journey and that you will come out even stronger. You can always make the most of a situation if you use it as an opportunity to learn and grow.

One of my favorite sassy sayings is, “Never let anyone dull your sparkle.” No matter who you are or where you come from, you have something special and unique to offer the world. Celebrate your independence and never settle for less than you deserve. 

Here’s an inspirational quote to empower you and celebrate being single: “The most powerful relationship you will ever have is the relationship with yourself.” – Diane Von Furstenberg. No matter what your situation, you always have the opportunity to create a positive and fulfilling life for yourself. 

So, don’t be discouraged if you’re single right now. You can create a life of joy, passion and fulfillment – and you don’t need anyone else to do it for you. Believe in yourself and trust that you can make your dreams a reality. You are strong, capable and worthy of a beautiful life. 

1. “A woman with a voice is by definition a strong woman.” – Melinda Gates
2. “You are your own greatest asset. Put your time, effort and money into training, grooming and encouraging your greatest asset.” – Beyonce
3. “You can’t be that kid standing at the top of the waterslide, overthinking it. You have to go down the chute.” – Tina Fey
4. “If your dreams don’t scare you, they are not big enough.” – Ellen Johnson Sirleaf
5. “The most effective way to do it, is to do it.” – Amelia Earhart
6. “Women are the real architects of society.” – Harriet Beecher Stowe
7. “Success isn’t about how much money you make, it’s about the difference you make in people’s lives.” – Michelle Obama
8. “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
9. “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” – Helen Keller
10. “The question isn’t who’s going to let me; it’s who’s going to stop me.” – Ayn Rand 
11. “The only way to do great work is to love what you do.” – Steve Jobs 
12. “If you can dream it, you can do it.” – Walt Disney 

Focus on what you can do, rather than what you can’t. Don’t let your current circumstances define you. Take action and be proactive. Invest in yourself by learning new skills, developing new interests or starting a new business. Surround yourself with people who inspire and motivate you. Find a support group or mentor who can help guide you. Life may not always be easy, but with determination and the courage to take risks, you can create the life you desire.