We know how powerful a woman’s intuition can be, and in business, it’s common to be told to “trust our gut.” But, I am an emotional creature, and I’ve had plenty of moments of making impulse decisions that, in hindsight, I realized I should’ve never done because I was too excited or too reactive. 

For those of us who walk with God, our “gut” should be guided by the Holy Spirit which, oftentimes, famously comes when we have a clear head, breathe and listen for that whisper (1 Kings 19:11-12). Are you launching a new business, shifting direction or strategizing growth? God has everything you need to reach your goals in what He provides and in the people He’s appointed to your life. However, there’s a divine way to approach it that keeps God in the CEO position while gleaning wisdom from role models and cultivating your unique calling. 

Proverbs 11:14 says, “For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers.” God’s gift is to protect and sharpen you through wise counsel. He wired you to thrive in community because you grow best when you’re open to the perspectives, experiences and corrections of others who also walk with Him. Wise counsel can come from people who have walked further than you or are walking alongside you, but they have developed a deeper understanding in areas where you’re still learning. Their insights are valuable, but even as you seek advice and support, remember that no human voice should speak louder than God’s. 

This can be challenging as God desires for you to walk in confidence and security, knowing exactly who He created you to be. Your personality, your strengths and your quirks are not accidents; they’re intentional and given to you to be used and set yourself apart. Your wise counsel may not fully understand because they’ve never been you. Wisdom can be instilled in you without compromising or muting your voice. Don’t fall into the trick of people-pleasing. Ultimately, only you and God know the full vision He has placed within your heart. Others can support it, encourage it and even help shape it, but they can’t see the entire picture like you can.

I encourage you to read the book of Esther. As a newly appointed queen, she had great influence. She had wise counsel in her cousin, Mordecai, who guided her with bold and prophetic wisdom. But, it was Esther who ultimately had to discern the right moment to walk into the king’s court and save her people. She listened, but she also trusted what God had uniquely called her to do.

There will be moments in your life and business when you’ll be met with conflicting opinions. When that happens, lean into 1 John 2:27: “The anointing that you received from Him remains in you, and you do not need anyone to teach you…” Wise counsel is a divine tool, not your compass. God is your compass. He is the one who knows every turn in your journey. You don’t need the world’s approval for a vision they weren’t given. Simply stay humble enough to listen to others, but stay grounded enough to discern what’s truly for you. I have faith in you. 

Sheridan C. Watkins is a journalist and the owner of Perennial Peaces, a jewelry and gifts brand focused on transcending human understanding of God’s love and being a source of peace on Earth. Her true work began after victory over depression, and her calling is to provide peace through her Divine gifts to help women heal and transform their lives. Follow the mission on Instagram, Facebook & TikTok: @perennialpeaces.